March 13, 2018
A man sees himself reflected in the eyes of his woman. She can make him look small, incompetent, and weak. Or she can make him look strong, heroic, larger than life, a good man and true. And seeing himself so, he can be all that. In this way, her submission and trust make him a hero. A hero who holds her happiness and well-being in his hands. He will cherish that happiness and well-being above everything–above his own, perhaps–because that hero in her eyes is worth more to him than money, status, or his own comfort. This is the dynamic of the master and his queen. He cannot do enough for her because of the way she sees him.
I didn’t see myself as a controlling woman, but I suppose I was. It’s not a bad thing to be; it all depends on the circumstances. Sometimes a woman’s survival depends on it. But when a woman would be happier if she had less control and she still won’t give it up, I think it’s because she was wounded at some point. Perhaps she was orphaned in childhood, or abused, or abandoned by her parents. Perhaps she was hurt in adolescence by selfish, uncaring men. Whatever happened, something convinced her that she was on her own, that if she didn’t take care of herself, no one would. She is, you might say, a woman warrior in a hostile world.
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