Joy of Iraq war orphan who lost both his arms in bombing raid as he plans wedding to childhood friend

  • ‘There were moments when I thought getting married was something that would never happen to me’
  • Missile attack killed 13 members of his family including parents

By
Daily Mail Reporter

04:08 EST, 16 September 2012


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04:08 EST, 16 September 2012

The plight of Iraq war orphan Ali Abbas touched the hearts of millions when he lost both arms and suffered 60 per cent burns in a  U.S. missile attack.

Now nine years on from the botched bombing raid on his home which killed 13 members of his family including his parents, he has found love.

Ali, 21, will marry 18-year-old childhood friend Ankam Hamza after they became engaged last summer in a special ceremony blessed by an imam.

In love: Ali Abbas who lost both arms and 13 members of his family in a U.S. bombing raid

In love: Ali Abbas who lost both arms and 13 members of his family in a U.S. bombing raid

They will meet up in Baghdad this week to plan the wedding before he brings Ankham back to Britain where he passed a UK Citizenship test in 2010.

Ali told the Sun:’There were moments when I thought that getting married was something that would never happen to me.

‘If people ask, “How will you hug your wife”? I will answer,” It doesn’t matter because I am a good kisser’

Ali was just 12 when he was airlifted to Kuwait for life-saving surgery after a direct appeal from medics in Iraq. He was eventually flown to Britain where he was fitted with two artificial arms by specialists at Queen Mary’s Hospital in London.

Brave war victim: Burned and limbless Ali, aged 12 after the missile attack on his home

Brave war victim: Burned and limbless Ali, aged 12 after the missile attack on his home

Learning: Ali is taught how to paint with his feet by a therapist Nafisa Kamal in Kuwait

Learning: Ali is taught how to paint with his feet by a therapist Nafisa Kamal in Kuwait

Football fan: Ali supports Manchester United and loves practising his skills

Football fan: Ali supports Manchester United and loves practising his skills

He never lost touch with his
surviving sister back in Iraq and has visited his country of birth every
year to meet other family members.

It
was on one of his annual trips in 2010 that he met Ankham again when
she came to the family home as a friend of his sister Hedel.

Ali told writer Sharon Hendry: ‘My sister joked with her, “Ali is single. Perhaps you can marry him!” Apparently she said immediately, “I wouldn’t mind at all.”

After getting permission to speak to her from Ankham’s mother they dated for two months over that summer before deciding they were serious about a future together.

There is only one slight  problem in their relationship – she is not keen on football while he is a devout Manchester United fan.

The couple plan to settle in Britain after they get a visa for Ankham to accompany her new husband.

After receiving his certificate of citizenship at a ceremony in south London, Ali said: ‘I will always be an Iraqi in my heart but I am British too now.

‘I miss my parents dreadfully and think about them all of the time but I want them to be proud of me and so I need to go on with my life.’

The comments below have been moderated in advance.

Oh please, if there were never any scantions on Iraq and we never blew it up, his family would be alive, he would have all his limbs, he would most probably be highly educated and preparing for a good career and lavish wedding in Iraq.

Lee
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London England,
16/9/2012 13:49

Can’t believe how fast he has grown , seems like yesterday all this Happend . Congratulations and Good Luck .

Marg
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Durham,
16/9/2012 13:48

“Now nine years on from the botched bombing raid on his home…………”

The term “botched” bombing raid suggests there some types of bombing raid are perfectly acceptable. Whoever wrote this article should be thoroughly ashamed of that line.

Mrs M
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South Tyneside, United Kingdom,
16/9/2012 13:48

im happy for him..but there are others like him whose families have been murdered in this horrible war who cant get any help..

amy735
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london,
16/9/2012 13:26

There will be many more victims like this we are never shown. John Pilger attempts to reveal these terrible war crimes.

Barbara77
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Northumberland, United Kingdom,
16/9/2012 13:15

whats wrong with living in iraq…

sean
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harrogate,
16/9/2012 12:26

Iam very happy for him . Unfortunately the killers of his entire family are still free , smiling and making millions at conferences and talks across the world . there Is NO justice , only for the poor and the weak .

leyla
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Bristol, United Kingdom,
16/9/2012 12:24

Wishing them much love and happiness in the future.

Jules100
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London, United Kingdom,
16/9/2012 11:59

Bliar’s war: Bomb him, kill most of his family, and then give him football shirt; all okay now.

Cohe_n
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UK, United Kingdom,
16/9/2012 11:52

his determination to carry on with his life is truly inspiring.

gbukip
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London, United Kingdom,
16/9/2012 11:50

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