Sex & Young Women — Overrated

 

May 8, 2017

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by Henry Makow Ph.D.

I turned 67 last November. When I think back over the great loves of my life–the young women that enthralled me– I realize now they were all delusions. The ladies were not who I thought they were. I idealized them.  

b871f2f6305c886721af4f112c2ff822--pinup-girls-pin-up.jpgWe are programmed by popular culture –especially movies and music — to fulfill mental concepts whether or not they correspond to reality. We are programmed to worship movie stars — “sex Goddesses.” Romantic love is our ersatz religion. Sexual intercourse is the holy sacrament. Our pagan (i.e. Cabalistic, Masonic) “cult-ure” regards sex as a panacea. 

Sex without love is just masturbation. In the context of marriage, it can create a powerful bond that overcomes differences. 

The mating instinct in young men is just as powerful as in women.That’s why they need to seek only women who want marriage. Study their character through patient courtship. Avoid feminists, sluts and women who had bad relationships with their fathers. Look for a dependable helpmate/ companion rather than soul mate. (Souls are too mercurial.)

Love and sex shouldn’t be your first priority. These add to life but our primary relationship is with God, who is the personal ideal we set for ourself. Henry David Thoreau said: “Every man is tasked to make his life, even in its details, worthy of the contemplation of his most elevated and critical hour.”

God is represented by our soul. Our goal is to be in total possession of ourselves (true to our ideal self) always. Ralph Waldo Emerson said, “A trust in yourself is the height of piety, not pride. It is unwillingness to learn from any but God Himself.”

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“What we lose when we forget what sex is for”

Reading Suggestion: “Sexual Energy and Yoga” by Elizabeth Haich, 1972

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