Sorry darling, I just can’t help it: How scientists have found out the real reason why many men fall asleep after sex

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Daily Mail Reporter

03:04 EST, 22 July 2012

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03:20 EST, 22 July 2012

It's a problem that leaves many woman frustrated, but scientists might have finally given men an excuse for sleeping straight after sex

It’s a problem that leaves many woman frustrated, but scientists might have finally given men an excuse for sleeping straight after sex

It is no secret that many men nod off straight after sex.

And for their female partners, the loud buzz of snoring after a passionate encounter is practically guaranteed to sour the mood.

But now scientists might well have given men the perfect excuse for feeling drowsy: they just can’t help themselves.

Experts conducted research which involved scanning the brains of men during and after orgasm.

In the case of the latter, they found that the cerebral cortex – which plays a vital role in attention, consciousness and perceptual awareness – shut down almost immediately after orgasm.

Serge Stoleru, a French government scientist, said that the research offers the ‘first hints’ of what happens in the brain during sex.

He told the Sunday Times: ‘For women, it seems to be different.

‘They don’t seem to have such a strong refractory period and may be asking for more when their partners just want a rest.’

The study also showed that the brain switched off almost all sexual desire after orgasm.

And as well as this, men have a further reason for feeling drowsy: their brains become flooded with sleep-inducing chemicals such as serotonin after they have had sex.

Earlier studies have also suggested that men aren’t to blame for wanting to take a well-earned break after sex.

In 2005, research found the blood rush after climax depletes the muscles of energy-producing glycogen.

And because men typically have higher muscle density than women, they become more tired after sex.

Dr Neil Stanley, director of sleep at the University of Surrey, said that men were not completely at fault.

‘As frustrating as it is for most women that their male partners just roll over and fall asleep after sex, men aren’t entirely to blame,’ he said.

Dr Neil Stanley said although it is frustrating for women when their male partners doze off, science could provide the answer

Dr Neil Stanley said although it is frustrating for women when their male partners doze off, science could provide the answer

‘Humans are the only animals in which sleep and sex are linked and while often seen as just a poor excuse, there are scientific reasons why men feel tired after sex.’

The survey showed the majority of men did feel more relaxed straight after sex.

Eighty per cent of men said they felt able to drift off without any problems after making love, compared with just 46 percent of women.

They were amongst 10,000 adults surveyed by organisers of The Vitality Show, Europe’s largest health and beauty exhibition.

The survey also found 48 per cent of men had actually fallen asleep during the act itself.

And whilst scientists might have rescued men from a telling off for sleeping straight after orgasm, it seems perhaps understandable that the latest research won’t do the same for those who doze before reaching climax.

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Scientists can only figure out ‘how’. “Why’ is not in their playbook.
Why is for philosophy.
How is the realm of science.
Mixing the ‘why’ questions with science is sheer pretension.

mine shut down when i got married.

If a man’s cerebral cortex did not shut down after sex, none of us would ever get married!

Don’t they have to get dressed and go home to the wife?

so in hunter gatherer tribes in ancient past the lady could easily sneak off to the lover(s) 😉
practically ladies can have a lot more lovers than men can….

I thought sex was what posh people used to have their servants bring the coal in ?

I think you’ll find it happens when women orgasm too (I’m not talking about the fake ones either).

We fall asleep because we’ve been doing all the work while she just lays back and thinks of England.

Absolute rubbish. Having had my leg over I get up immediately and do some decorating. As for my missus. She does some knitting.
– Mike, Romford, 22/7/2012 11:03
Im sorry Mike, this made me laugh out loud. I thought you were going to add “As for my missus. She does some knitting. five doors down! LOL

So what if they do fall asleep afterwards? I don’t see the problem and don’t know how it makes them any less loving, they’ve just been completely tired out, no need for the man bashing!

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