Outlawed: Pursuing a Woman

A rape survivor, Ms. Rand is well versed in feminist theory; she understands just how important and vital a shift such behavior from a young man is when it comes to casual sex. Yet, in practice, she had mixed feelings. “It’s difficult because on the one hand you’re like, ‘Dude, if I didn’t want it, I would stop you,'” she said. “On the other hand, that can be used against you if it was assault.”

…The #MeToo movement has upended a number of old so-called rules that allowed powerful men to force their desire on women whose silence they could count on. Now we have new rules, and, when it comes to sexual harassment or workplace gender discrimination, this can only be a good thing.

However, the concept of prescriptive, universal guidelines is anathema to truly mind-bending sex. So is codifying it into a moral or political act. Doing so turns the bedroom into a court of public opinion — one in which, as our inscrutable desires inevitably lure us into untested territory, both parties will leave feeling shamed. We don’t need different rules; we need two empowered individuals liberated and secure enough to explore each other’s impulses, to listen to each other, and ask for what they want — even if that includes permission to not ask for what comes next.

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First Comment from Nick:

This young woman’s account neatly illustrates the way women nowadays have been conditioned to believe they can have the best of all worlds with none of the downside. Yet life is inevitably about tradeoffs and balancing advantages and disadvantages of different states of affairs. If women expect men to take the initiative and generally respond better to sexually aggressive men, this will tend to increase the number of situations where women are subject to unwanted sexual advances. On the other hand, if society heads in the current direction of demonizing male heterosexuality and adopting broad definitions of harassment or abuse, more men to avoid women and some women will be affected by a lack of male attention. There are tradeoffs, and you cannot always have the best of all worlds. 

“…The #MeToo movement has upended a number of old so-called rules that allowed powerful men to force their desire on women whose silence they could count on. Now we have new rules, and, when it comes to sexual harassment or workplace gender discrimination, this can only be a good thing.”

By her own admission, women tend to respond well to sexually aggressive, entitled men. Yet how dare high status, successful men feel entitled to women! As with most feminism, this is about women being at war with innate female biology and psychology while pretending to be at war with inequitable societal structures. The truth is that evolution and natural selection has disposed women to respond well to certain aggressive or antisocial behavior in men. On some level, women are ambivalent about this. Yet it is easier to project these things onto society and men in general instead of accepting responsibility for their own role in this. 


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