"Womb-man" says Contraception is Bad for Her

 

May 20, 2012

birth control.jpegBeth Mueller is a 34-year-old
 German woman who thinks separating sex and  procreation
 is psychologically damaging.

by Beth Mueller
(henrymakow.com)

Although we all call ourselves human, men and women are completely different creatures. Just look at our bodies. Although the list is long, the obvious difference is often so easily overlooked and underestimated: the womb. It is what makes us female.

When I really started to understand the depth of what this meant, it changed my entire outlook on life. The problem is that modern society teaches women not to identify with their womb and the fact that they were designed by God to get pregnant.

We should be having children. We should even be having them early! That is our God-given role in nature.

I am 34 years old and I will never put myself in the position where I have to say to a man, “Honey, I’m pregnant, WHAT DO YOU THINK?”

I should know that the man is there for me and that- as scary as it may be for both- the fact that I am pregnant should not come as a shock! IT IS THE LOGICAL CONSEQUENCE OF SEX. Might as well get things set up for a life and a future beforehand…

I have no idea what a condom feels like for a man, but as a woman it is terrible. It took me a while to figure out why I found it so disgusting, till I realized it’s the subconscious message: ” I want to sleep with you, but I do not want to give you my all, my seed”

 It makes me feel used. One time, I had a boyfriend who I cared for very much. We had not seen each other in a while, it was agreed that a condom be used, but in the heat of the moment, at the moment I had completely trusted myself over to him and couldn’t say no anymore either, he entered without it…it was such a traumatic, painful and paralyzing feeling because at that moment I just knew that I was alone.

 This guy did not have the means to help me. Although he said that he would be there for me and help, I just realized he did not have the means and that I was alone… although I don’t blame him and love him as a human being, my romantic feelings for him just disappeared from one moment to the next, never to return because I just felt so empty and alone…it had been me helping him financially, me carrying all the burden, he probably couldn’t have even helped me finance an abortion.

Thank God it never came to that, I was not pregnant, but that could have been my fate…I’ve already accompanied two girl friends to get the day-after pill…is that what life is all about?
 
And the terrible thing is that- as much as we try to work against it- God designed  women to get pregnant. It should be our greatest joy! Instead we act like it is a punishment from God! 

And we do everything to avoid the most natural thing in the world…and to the point that we feel subconsciously guilty about the fact that we can get pregnant.
 
I have made a decision. If the thought of becoming pregnant the moment I am having sex does not bring me joy, but fear of dealing with it alone, it is not worth it. …

Condoms are so terrible that most opt for the pill. I ask you, is that any better? For men, it’s easier because it’s not their body, they can focus on the sex…but, what does the pill really do to a woman’s body and her psyche??

This is an area which no one likes to talk about…decreased libido, pseudo-pregnancy, depression…and everyone acts like it’s only about finding “the right one”!

No one is questioning the whole concept as a whole…

I have had enough….so many women even go a step further, just get the tubes tied…. when a women starts messing with and deactivating the womb…she is also flushing her womanhood down the drain with it…

The womb stands for motherhood and motherly, nurturing and caring qualities… a woman without a womb is a man, just look at how some of them act…

For woman to start healing from all this mess, we need to start identifying ourselves with our womb! We should love the fact that we can get pregnant from the inside, identify ourselves with our body and the way God made us…

Everything else is hurting ourselves (often on a sub-conscious level). We need to know what we are looking for in a man. It’s our duty to set higher standards. Women are worth so much more. We have been selling ourselves too cheap.
 
We need to send men a clear message. Women and children come part and parcel. If you only want me with contraception you must not want me bad enough.
 
It’s selfish of men to want the sex and not give their all, the seed…women are fertile ground. We are designed for something to be planted and to grow in us….

Take that away from us and you have no idea what it does to our psyche. Take that away from us and we turn into men. Act like men. That’s the problem.

Then the men complain that there are no real females left…but for those of us left, who actually wants the responsibility of providing for us and children? 

Save the males…but what about the females? Who can save us? We have to work together to expose the lies and propaganda to start saving each other…

Comments for “”Womb-man” says Contraception is Bad for Her”

Nadir said (May 21, 2012):

http://www.vatican.va/holy_father/paul_vi/encyclicals/documents/hf_p-vi_enc_25071968_humanae-vitae_en.html

Humanae Vita (1968)

17. Responsible men can become more deeply convinced of the truth of the doctrine laid down by the Church on this issue if they reflect on the consequences of methods and plans for artificial birth control. Let them first consider how easily this course of action could open wide the way for marital infidelity and a general lowering of moral standards. Not much experience is needed to be fully aware of human weakness and to understand that human beings—and especially the young, who are so exposed to temptation—need incentives to keep the moral law, and it is an evil thing to make it easy for them to break that law.

Another effect that gives cause for alarm is that a man who grows accustomed to the use of contraceptive methods may forget the reverence due to a woman, and, disregarding her physical and emotional equilibrium, reduce her to being a mere instrument for the satisfaction of his own desires, no longer considering her as his partner whom he should surround with care and affection.


Henry Makow is the author of A Long Way to go for a Date. He received his Ph.D. in English Literature from the University of Toronto. He welcomes your feedback and ideas at

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